Since 1-2 weeks ago, I almost hear my friends/colleagues/course mates asked me...
" Min-Hui, are you okay? you look tired"
" Min-Hui, you curi ayam (catching chicken in Malay, usually people use to describe a person do not have enough rest on previous night) last night? why didn't you sleep?"
" hey! Min-Hui, guess what? from far, I can see you in the crowd. You are the most outstanding with the sleepy look."
" What happen to you? look so chan (it's Cantonese word, to describe a person look tired, and look souled out)."
" Min-Hui, are you very pressure at work or study? Min-Hui, how many times I told you not to work so hard? relax. Work can never be finished"
" Min-Hui, you better pay attention to your own health. Slow down, don't do everything at once. You are not superwoman! If you kept on like this, you will not find any bf (this is worst! cursing me!!!)"
I felt so sad, and I shared this with my best friend Shan. After listening to her, I felt much more better. I am now trying to make myself look better with the tired look.
She told me that the last time she saw me (last week) I looked okay. Peoples just jealous me, they want to break my confidence. Friend like her, she will never do that, because her self confidence level is so high that nothing can make her jealous me. So, ask myself to be confidence! I look great.
It's true that when I listen too much said that I look tired, I try to put myself more on bed to get enough sleep, and avoid to drink wine. The effect is worst, I felt my mental even more tired.
