It's from his ex-gf, who was before me, Pang Cui Ling to Teh Kien Leng.
Found their similarity, their hand writing also not nice :P hehe
anyway, the main thing I wanna blog is about the bookmark. It's "Don't quit".
DON'T QUIT!
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
when the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
when the funds are low, and the debts are high,
and you want to smile but you have so sigh,
when care is pressing you down a bit,
rest if you must,
but don't you quit.
Life is strange with its twists and turns,
as everyone of us sometimes learns,
and many a failure turns about,
when he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
you may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out,
the silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and you never can tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems so far.
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,
it's when things seem worse,
that you must not quit.
when the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
when the funds are low, and the debts are high,
and you want to smile but you have so sigh,
when care is pressing you down a bit,
rest if you must,
but don't you quit.
Life is strange with its twists and turns,
as everyone of us sometimes learns,
and many a failure turns about,
when he might have won had he stuck it out.
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
you may succeed with another blow.
Success is failure turned inside out,
the silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
and you never can tell how close you are,
it may be near when it seems so far.
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit,
it's when things seem worse,
that you must not quit.
I realised that I am really someone who did not have the observation skill. With or without the bookmark, I didn't realise my bf (that time) is someone give up easily, and quit easily. I am terribly sorry.
He is someone who quit very easy, and never turn back to the things happened before, and he seldom mention about his past. He is someone that does not have history. His current friends' circle do not know his history either.
I am an easy person, if he does not willing to tell, I won't force, I won't ask. If he wanted to tell, he would tell me without I asking.
Same thing go with the current bf. I do not know much about his past. What he doesn't tell, I won't ask. But I will observe his current, hope that history and experience are not relevant to him. I do not know whether this is right or not, I just want to keep the privacy room for him. I really hope he appreciates that, and I would not need to step back the history step to face that "your man is having affair with another girl" cruel fact.
I do not tell my history much either, as he seems like not interested to know. Past seems like not important. Well, I think so, as I changed so much to keep myself stepping on the earth, and overcome problems by myself with family and friends support.
To be frank, I do not know what should and what should not share in a relationship. I do not know how to keep relationship like friendship like the book said. But I will try my best to do it. I hope that should be the way for couple.
He is someone who quit very easy, and never turn back to the things happened before, and he seldom mention about his past. He is someone that does not have history. His current friends' circle do not know his history either.
I am an easy person, if he does not willing to tell, I won't force, I won't ask. If he wanted to tell, he would tell me without I asking.
Same thing go with the current bf. I do not know much about his past. What he doesn't tell, I won't ask. But I will observe his current, hope that history and experience are not relevant to him. I do not know whether this is right or not, I just want to keep the privacy room for him. I really hope he appreciates that, and I would not need to step back the history step to face that "your man is having affair with another girl" cruel fact.
I do not tell my history much either, as he seems like not interested to know. Past seems like not important. Well, I think so, as I changed so much to keep myself stepping on the earth, and overcome problems by myself with family and friends support.
To be frank, I do not know what should and what should not share in a relationship. I do not know how to keep relationship like friendship like the book said. But I will try my best to do it. I hope that should be the way for couple.
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