大男人与小男人

市面上的男人, 一望下去, 很多都很大男人. 那看起来才像做大事的. 对女人呼呼喝喝, 确实是有男人气概.而温柔体贴的则被人称为怕女人的男人.
(When the age grow, i just realised man "big" men in the market. They look very productive, many things are waiting for them to settle, without them the things cannot be settled. They talk laudly without repect to their partner. It shows their style. If they treat their woman politely or softly, they afraid peoples might said they are women's slave.)

1) 哪一种男人会吃香呢?
我个人觉得刚柔兼有的男人最好.
(1) Which type of man actually more favourable?, i personally found a mixture of both is better of course)

在人前人后, 有个温柔的男人在身边, 多体贴. 在被人欺负时又可以保护你的那一种. 哇!好甜蜜的感觉!
(He will then very caring and understanding. But when someone bully me, he can still protect me. How sweet?)

2) 什么又是大男人中的小男人?
那就是对女人态度恶劣又大大声讲话, 但是又可有脸地要求笨女人为他付出一切, 为他做他所没有能力去做的. 这种男人是有很多朋友的, 他们大多数"讲义气".
(2) what is "big man" with "Small man" characteristics?
Those men who speak laudly to their women without respect, but they are yet very demanding. They are asking the stupid woman to sacrify to him, assist him to do something he is unable to. This type of man, usually they have many friends. They treat their friends much more better than her.)

3) 什么又是小男人中的大男人?
呐呐呐! 我想这种也不错. 他对她可能温柔, 但未必听话. 他应该是有自己主见的. 所以, 这种男人比较会为女人打算将来. 也就是说, 他会为她而奋斗, 以她以后的好生活做为目标. 除了照顾自己, 也想照顾女人, 自己的家, 女人的家, 和计划中与女人一起创造的家. 至少女人以后不必为生活需求而担心. 他朋友不多, 只喜欢与他的女人在一起, 福建话有个金言所谓: "女人抱紧紧, 朋友不插削(不理的意思)".
(3) What is "small man" but with "big man" characteristics?
Na Na nA...i think this type of man is not bad. He is caring, but he might not be a follower all time. He supposes to have his own thought. So, this type of man is more planning oriented. He is willing to make his woman into his future plan. In another words, he willing to work extra hard to provide her a better life. Besides taking care of himself, he will also take care of his woman, his own family and his woman's family. Of course, he also have a family plan with the woman. At least the woman does not need to worry about his basic needs in the future. This type of man, he has not many friend. He just likes to hang out with the girl friend. There is a proverb in Hokkien " zha boh lam diao diao, peng yew boh chap siao", it means they just ignore friends, they just like girl).

对女人来说, 小男人中的大男人会很理想, 但是又想他有点义气.那完了. 因为大男人的成份又高了!
(To represent ladies, i think "small man but with big man characteristics" type is ideal type. In additional, i think if he can treat friends better, it's better. But then, he will be very big man again, as man likes to show off their ability in front of friends. Sh*t...