When your wingz grow harder

Since moved office, the radio is placed not far away from me. So I can listen to it clearer than last time. Especially, news, music, and the advertisement.

Recently, the public announcement ad always repeats "We saw our parents as our hero when we were young, what about, if there is a day they got stroke? Will you give them a hand?"

Hm....it gave me a Lin Wu....
When we grow older, we have grown our own wingz, we have our own thought, mind and stand of point, which might be different from our parents. Of course, there is generation gap, there is different of friends, and working environment or even education background. But partly, these were given by our parents by chance and with their support.

We might have arguments. We both argue for our own points. We want our thought to be proven. But...parents might be also struggling to accept our thought, as this is very new to them. We were their small kids, who always obey to them, not to object them. If we do not obey....they will "punish" us. Now, the punishment might not be valid anymore. So, both parties are frustrated.

Relationship might be spoil after a while. Then later, more members join into the family after marriage. Not only argument between family (parents, and siblings), but also in-laws.
hm...getting complicated. And responsibility to take care of the both parents are pushing around. (to some peoples)....

The pity parents thought that nobody want them. In fact, it could be some misunderstanding in between. But.....as one of the child, who have been well taken care of by our parents....

We have to always remember the difficulty stages that our parents gone through to raise us.
You could be one of the parents already. You should know....there is chain effect! How you treat your parents could be mirror to you later on.

It's not so call "responsibility" to take care of our parents, but it's more towards "willing to" thingy. Yes, parents might turn like a kids (memory lost, urine control lost..e.t.c). Don't tell me you are gonna frust about it. They did the same thing to us, when we were a child. They help us to build our every single memory, to learn, and change diapers for us, when we couldn't be independent to go toilet by ourselves.

Nothing is more valuable than our parents, and our family.
Now I have my parents, my family, and Coco in the family. I value you all! And my friends who are always with me. I love you all!!!!